Couples issues · For couples
Sexual rebuilding after infidelity. Slow, structured, often paired with affair-recovery couples therapy.
Last reviewed: 2026-05-10 · Reading time ~6 min
Esther Perel's "The State of Affairs" and Janis Spring's "After the Affair" are foundational.
Slow, paced, non-penetrative-first rebuilding. Always alongside therapist-led affair recovery.
Always — affair recovery is therapist territory.
After initial stabilization with a couples therapist — often 3–6 months in.
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