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- You want the spark back
What the research says
Esther Perel's "Mating in Captivity" is foundational.
How tantra approaches this
Polarity, novelty, slowness — combined.
Couples issues · For couples
The work of restoring erotic charge to a long-term partnership.
Last reviewed: 2026-05-10 · Reading time ~6 min
Esther Perel's "Mating in Captivity" is foundational.
Polarity, novelty, slowness — combined.
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